Are you feeling as if the rug has been pulled out from under you? Things that were so normal, almost unconscious, have changed. The day-care, the haircut, the summer camp, the trip are all questionable. What do you do next? You stay home with kids and try to work, you have long hair, you have no idea how you’re going to go back to work with no day care, the trip you were so excited about …. it is all collapsing.